Hi there, looking to buy my first RAV4. I'm looking at a 4x4 base with the third row seat, mostly to have available to haul around my children's friends (they're 2 & 5 and have small friends :wink: ) Hubby thinks its a waste of money and we don't need it. For those of you who do have it, do you like it? Is it so small and hard to access that you don't really use it? Does it affect the handling of the car? Are you satisfied with how it lies flat? Would you get it again? Any other thoughts? Thanks!