I have a hard time understanding why the strut tower bolts are not OK.... I mean, the unibody of the vehicle is all fundamentally grounded together.
I get that routing the ground through the ECU bolt or housing might have caused some sort of current fluctuation that in turn damaged the ECU. But what is more magical about some U shaped bracket on the otherside of the engine versus a bolt sticking out of the strut tower. I mean, IF there were some sort of lesser resistance from some areas of the vehicle than other, we would end up with all sorts of mis-behavior. Modern vehicles are generally pretty well grounded and tied together.
Just musing.......