I detail cars part time
if you want shine any water based dressing like, meguiars hyper dressing, or carpro perl are all pretty shinny, (you can dilute with water to make it less shinny)
if you want oem looking, 1z einzett cockpit premium leave more of a matte finish.
Texas (the resident pro detailer) uses another product, but I don't remember the name since it's not available in Canada (surf city or something like that)