Thank you all for your posts. They really helped my get comfortable with my number in central NJ so now it's time for me to reciprocate.
Year: 2021 (Canada Vin)
Trim: XLE
FWD or AWD: AWD
Color: SIlver
Options: All Weather Floor Liner, BM Body Side Molding, Mudguard
MSRP: 28,745.00
Invoice Price (if known): N/A
Sales Price (excluding tax, title, license): 26,701 includes 1000 customer cash
NJ Tax: 1882.38
NJ Doc Fee: 599.99
NJ Reg and Title Fee: 376
Dealer Add-Ons (extended warranty, tint, paint protectant, etc): None
City and State Where You Purchased: NJ North of Raritan River
OTD: 29,558.38
Finance: No Finance - Paid Cash
Three other dealers would not even negotiate when I gave them a number ~$500 less than above OTD and they wouldn't even touch this OTD either when I told them I had that $29,558 number from dealer X. One of them said in person it was a very good number and let me walk out of their dealership. Another of the three who had 9 of the same exact model/series in stock (4 silver ones) told me to go buy it at the dealer who quoted me, he was surprised at the number, and thought maybe the dealer wouldn't honor it once in with the numbers guy.
I could have pressed harder and maybe received $29,000 OTD or less over the next few weeks but I figured this number is right in line with what three others paid in NJ/NY in this forum. I think it was a good deal but I didn't cut them to the bone. Also, being in the dealership I didn't care about that $500 because the sales guy who handled the prep was very, patient, respectful, and friendly and it makes you realize dealership overhead and these guys have to eat too.
Ok have a good night and thanks again.