Sorry , should have been a little more expressive 🙂
I want to say that no matter what other options are, at the end it is your own, the drivers, opinion that matters the most.
I wanted to get my wife into an AWD car and yet, at the end she chosed what she liked it the most and it wasn't what I would have picked even though the Corolla is a good car overall.
Now to your 2010 Foresters, it is interesting how our experience differ. Mine 2010 was very good to the end. Except for a few dings on the body and paint issues, inflicted by me , mechanicaly it was almost perfect. Almost no issues at all. I always took it to my dealer, I had and still have a good relationship with my Subaru dealer, and they told me the car was good mechanicaly.
Around 140k I had to do a full tuneup and change over the wires, plugs and coils, which were still OEM at the time, about that time I also did transmission and diffs oil drain and fill. A few month later I had radiator blow on me and needed to fix that. But it was still a solid car. It just my milege is crazy at 80+ miles a day. But if a drove a sain amount of miles, like 10k or under I would still keep my Forester for a while. It was still in very nice shape for a 10 yo car with 160k on it.
I now drive my new 2020 RAV4 hybrid XLE and so far it is a good experience. Will see in 10 years