Okay, I am a 40 year old male and I'm looking at 2008 certified used cars. I am considering the Toyota RAV4 Limited, Jeep Liberty, Subaru Outback (LL Bean) and the Subaru Tribecca. My biggest issue with the RAV4 is that it SCREAMS soccer Mom at me! I can't stop thinking about the fact that it's a "chick's car". Can someone convince me otherwise?? I would love for someone other then a Toyota sales person to sell me on the fact that it's not really a "Mommy car". .... I like the reviews, reliability, gas milage, looks, ..etc. I just can't get past the fact that the overwelming majority of people who own one are women!! ... Any thoughts?